How come Angry people become Angry Muslims???

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Permalink Reply by sofia parveen on September 12, 2009 at 2:23am

Why 'angry' people become angry muslims? When they take a Shadah,they are taking an oath to God that they believe God is One and Prophet Muhammed is the Messenger of God. Everyone who comes to, has the same agenda to work out there relationship with Allah and to better themselves through it,for those who believe our change will come automatically from lets say an 'angry person' to a non angry person,takes time,because Allah wants to guide us through the pain we most often put ourselves through from not following the code [Allah's laws],which is mainly being a good human being. Most often[firstly speaking to myself] we do not have the tools to deal with the emotions one goes through,one feel frustrated,sad, lost,guilty,victimized which in time turns to bitterness and anger. There are many reasons we become agnry or bitter,most of the time its because one feels the world is against you,which is not the case we are the ones who are the ones who are against ourselves. Being a muslim does not immune oneself to these kind of feelings just because we have took the oath. We have to cleanse ourselves and Islam has the tools,if used properly to gain that peace and tranquillity. Our expections are high,We want so much in life,and because it doesn't go our way,we react,and usually its not pretty lol . We need to help those, to unrevel their feelings and to put them in the right boxes,and it is very hard work,but Allah willing if you put you foot forward to making that change InshAllah He will guide you. We do not listen,and listening is not hearing the spoken words but often the unspoken words,and not pushing down the Laws to them as to make them feel suffocated,we are to bring and guide one another to a place of safety,were the healing can take place. When our iman becomes stronger and our Lord becomes our focus,what the creatures of Allah do to you,becomes less important,less personal,because you understand that energy is wasted upon our anger,you will hear soft voice telling you,take no heed to their words rather than 'How dare they say that to me,and make me feel inferior. the more we can learn to Trust Allah, the better we can cope with these type of emotions. We have these superior and inferior complicity,we are one or the other, until we put our faith in Allah,even then we will go through the occasional bouts of frustration..but we learn to 'deal' with them more approprietaly with the help of our relationship with Allah,the Most compassionate The Most High. Allah Knows best,welcome to disagree, :-)).

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Permalink Reply by orient musslimah on September 12, 2009 at 3:25pm

that's right my friend but shoudn't we mention that there are some muslim or let's say people who didn't exactly understood their outh to allah behave in a manner that is.. let's say unappropriate and that the media uses this against us ...isn't our own mistakes that made this propaganda about islam so let's to work on that too!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by sofia parveen on September 12, 2009 at 4:20pm

ofcourse, there will always be curruption,within our religion as well as outside of our religion and ,we can not put a blame on just one thing,there are many factors,but it has to start with us,remember Allah is the planner not us,We can not stop a thing from happening if that is Allahs will but we can start changing our reactions to what we are exposed to, what positive stament action can take place of that damage caused by our fellow human beings. In our prophets time what did he do? how did he react? in a positive way,we can only do what is commanded of us the rest of it is up to Allah,after all it is He has guided me,you to the truth,even though we are far from perfect has He given up? for those few who are seeking somthing from this life,be they angry are responsible for there actions, and they will be held accountable ofcourse,but what i'm saying is can we place a positive to there nagitve blow out?? :-), i am upset when i see people being hurt because of someones anger, if there is somthing that i can do,i will try,whether that actions at that time gets to them or not. It is my reaction that may have a positive[by the will of Allah]chain of reation,who knows. Many people use there nagitive experiences turn them around and use it to give back to society,but this is not in our control,who change and who don't,only Allah knows that.Sorry i've wriiten quiet abit ,i may have lost the plot!lolz! thankyou.:-))

orient musslimah said:

that's right my friend but shoudn't we mention that there are some muslim or let's say people who didn't exactly understood their outh to allah behave in a manner that is.. let's say unappropriate and that the media uses this against us ...isn't our own mistakes that made this propaganda about islam so let's to work on that too!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Nash on September 12, 2009 at 5:40pm

?I've seen them, and so have you. Angry people using Islam to do what they were going to do anyways... Be Angry.

How come that is?

LOL man oh man aint that the truth. I think that ive somewhat got a handle on certain ones of this nature. What it is is that some people were given Islam and it destroyed their previous belief system. Whether it be Christianity or drugs or having a loose lifestyle. Some people have to have a very negative ruff way to help keeptheir souls from ever resorting back into becomming that devil that they used to be so they become extreem or somewhat angry muslims. If you aint got a jalaby on and a 10 foot beard your going to hell brother. But these same people you find them making salat reading Quran and learning about the Prophet but they are attracted to the qoute on qoute angry muslim people. I guess this helps them to not be addicted to drugs or fronication or false worship. And when you cross paths with them i find it best "TO SLAP DA HELL OUT OF THEM AND ASK WHATS YOUR PROBLEM DUDE!!!!???" LOLLOLLOLLOL but foreal its best to just ignore them just give them the sallams that they are due give them that friendly smile and loving respect that they are due. But if you stay and try to debate about Islam then you are a FOOL.

These type of people the conversation that i have with them is brief or about material things "hows the family, hows the house, hows work treating you, hows the kids, A did you guys see that new movie?? hey that food taste good, oh they got the best halal food over there. Simple conversations like that helps to keep the peace. They are still searching for true peace brother and some of them its going to take a life time so on thier Journey for peace for yourself and for them KEEP CONVERSATION VERY VERY VERY BASE!! You'll find that base conversations with them would brng you to love them even more. But once they start talking amongst themselves and your there lol lol bite your tounge and say As salam alakium. lol MAN i know this subject well hahahahahahaha.These angry ones can test you man lol

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Permalink Reply by sofia parveen on September 13, 2009 at 2:18pm

aww Nash i'm feelin the looove! come here and get a big hug from your big sis! very moving.

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Permalink Reply by Abu Sufyan on September 14, 2009 at 2:02am

Reminds me of something the Prophet (s) said that "whatever issues people have before they become Muslim, they bring it along with them into Islam (until they solve it)."

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Permalink Reply by Nash on September 14, 2009 at 6:46am

yup!

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