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Black men getting with Non Black women? Everyone cool with that?

I look around and I see it more and more. Black men dating, courting, and marrying outside the race. I Wonder how people feel about that. Are all the good brothers taken? If so, what is it about our community that single motherhood has risen to astronomical levels (as high as 80% according to some statistics) while other races seem to find a way to get married and keep a man (if they want to) even if its our own men. I am speaking in general. What is it about us (as statistics show) that we just can't seem to stay together? Is everyone cool with that? Maybe its a new day. Oh lets remember, you need not be PC (after all we are Muslim and Muslim in America isn't so PC right now). But we are Muslim and we have respect, so please be respectful. Jazaks.

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This needing to be on a KKK Site?? I dont think so. Its a real issue here in the US. So speak not without knowledge and respect. The prophet (s) said "If you have nothing good to say... Shut up (yes Usqoot, means shut up)" So umm... Usqoot.

Shiin said:
This is a muslim site. The question you posted is more relevant on a KKK site.
Well, Dante, if you feel so passionate about creating a discussion about Muslim Men marrying Non Muslim women... Then umm.... why not do that rather than add ratings and perpetuation to my discussion??

Dante said:
I istill feelthe topic should be Muslim men marrying non Muslim women. Since that would be a bigger and more Ummah orientated issue rather than something so menial such as race.
The issue is not about superior races. Its about an issue within the community. If you and Br. Shiin do not feel this topic is relevant to you, then simply... Be silent. Every time you reply and say something in this discussion, it adds more and more ratings to this topic, so unless you want that... Remain Silent :)

Dante said:
thatswhy when i was mod lol i closed it its a very thin line between whos race is superior. And whows is deserving of this and that. heh but yea

Shiin said:
This is a muslim site. The question you posted is more relevant on a KKK site.
Your responses are late. And even more so if you wish to address me address me seperate from shiin since our pickings at the topic are quite different. shiin believes its relevant to a kkk site and I believe its about Racial superiority my opinions about the topic are just as welcome as the topic itself it.
I wonder why when we talk about a racial minority, then its about racial superiority or some KKKrap versus an issue within the community... Its sad, we can talk about Micheal Jackson dying and Gay Muslims all day long, but one thing about Black people and Dun Dun DUN... It's taboo... heheh..I hope others do not think its about superiority. But for sure Dante, in all honesty, I want you to state your opinion A LOT. Because your opinion equals ratings whether ppl like them or not :)
Because when you mention racial minorities people go off the deep end with it as a pose to just sticking to the topic. and Its never about anything constructive. Black men getting with non black women everyone ok with that? what does that matter wouldnt the place for that be on blackplanet or something on a muslim site it should be leaned towards Muslim men getting with blah blah or why there is a Race issue in the ummah and why we have asian and Arab brothers


showing racism towards blacks when the athan was called by a black and the Prophet's favorite sahaba was black. Or why we have people showing racism towards Arabs when the Prophet himself was such. THAT is what should be mentioned when minorities are brought up. Not... whether or not a Black man should be socially acceptable to his family and the Black side of the ummah because he marries a white or a persian. But because maybe he could have found a good muslimah or has overlooked a muslimah and gone for kaffir or People of the book.


THAT is why minorities are a taboo and Most sites try to refrain from bringing them up.
Salaam all
You know it seems that when the muslims are busy bickering with one another they fail to see who the real enemy is... a black man dating/ marrying outside his race may offend other black people, but it happens..and we shouldn't let that make us feel bad about ourselves, or lessen our self-esteem. We should all hold our heads up with confidence that we have been chosen to be Khalifahs on this earth, regardless of our skin colour. We should work towards seeing the world for what it trully is, a place of tests and trials and that its not what happens to us that matters but our ability to respond or react to it.
'just my two pence worth'
Dante said:
Because when you mention racial minorities people go off the deep end with it as a pose to just sticking to the topic. and Its never about anything constructive. Black men getting with non black women everyone ok with that? what does that matter wouldnt the place for that be on blackplanet or something on a muslim site it should be leaned towards Muslim men getting with blah blah or why there is a Race issue in the ummah and why we have asian and Arab brothers


showing racism towards blacks when the athan was called by a black and the Prophet's favorite sahaba was black. Or why we have people showing racism towards Arabs when the Prophet himself was such. THAT is what should be mentioned when minorities are brought up. Not... whether or not a Black man should be socially acceptable to his family and the Black side of the ummah because he marries a white or a persian. But because maybe he could have found a good muslimah or has overlooked a muslimah and gone for kaffir or People of the book.


THAT is why minorities are a taboo and Most sites try to refrain from bringing them up.

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